Though you will not get the benefit of my in-person flip chart trainings, you can get training I am offering online through PESI - a professional educational service that awards CEs.


Here is the link to my current trainings PESI offers: https://catalog.pesi.com/speaker/nancy-johnston-952193 


Especially note that I am offering a 6.25 live online webinar on Wednesday, December 7, 2022:

The Codependency Treatment Guide:

CBT, Somatic Strategies and More

to Disentangle Clients from Dysfunctional Relationships and Recover Self

The Codependency Treatment Guide


 


In case you are Curious,

In case you are Thinking of Joining Us,

In case you Plan to Join Us,


Here are the dates for Codependence Camp for 2023:

 

Spring 2023 - Camp#31 - Friday, March 31 - Sunday, April 2, 2023

 

Fall 2023 - Camp#32 - Friday, September 29 - Sunday, October 1, 2023


Codependence Camp is held at 

Vine Cottage on the grounds of The Inn at Forest Oaks

Natural Bridge, VA 24578

https://theinnatforestoaks.com/


 If you would like to be on the blind copy email list for Camp agendas and registration,

please contact Nancy L. Johnston through this website.

 


The day has come! Earlier in the Spring I did an interview for The Love Fix Podcast with Sherry Gaba and Carla Romo. The interview was released today! What a great time we had talking together! Sherry and Carla really know their stuff and are super interested in codependency.


Here are the links to our show. There are plenty of wonderful shows on The Love Fix Podcast for you to enjoy and learn from, too.


iTunes:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/self-recovery-and-codependent-behaviors-with/id1551411428?i=1000567583238


Spotify:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6vzMuUXENHhVr0hFLmrw1g?si=PdXacaf8Sh-mh5PubJaVVQ


I hope you will take a listen and join us in our exploration of codependency recovery!




Recently I was speaking with someone about the importance of reminding our self of why we set a boundary, why we took a stand, why we made a particular decision - especially when we have carefully centered and thoughtfully made those decisions.


We loose track of the good work we are doing on our own behalf as our focus is drawn outside of our self. Remembering, reminding our self can anchor us when we are feeling pulled off our own moorings.

And then I thought about the word: re-mind and added the hyphenation to emphasize the work we are doing. We are re-minding our self. We are intentionally catching our thoughts which may be forgetting our own needs and feelings. We are re-setting self by re-minding self. We are anchoring back in self.

What helps you to re-mind your self?



May Roses

In case you have found your way to this Blog, please know that the "Self-Recovery" workshop I am offering on Saturday, May 21, 2022, 9am - 12:30pm is happening! Here are the details: https://www.nancyljohnston.com/copy-of-self-recovery-workshop-2.


If you are interested in participating, you are still welcome to contact me through this website as late as Friday, May 20, 2022 to attend this online event on Saturday.


Ready participants are already enrolled. You are invited to join us and spend a Saturday morning learning ways to connect with and foster your self. A refreshing opportunity.



Downtown Books in Lexington, VA - my home base - hosted me for a book talk on the 2nd Edition of Disentangle. In part we offered this event to promote this new 2020 edition. To a larger extent we offered the event in recognition of May as Mental Health Awareness month.


Loss of self in others can be a fundamental reason for the anxiety and depression we treat in our counseling practices. And certainly relationship problems emerge from this loss of self. Often such loss of self presents as over-functioning for others and under-functioning for self. The balance between self and other is off, and we may not even be consciously aware of it.


Since you were not able to attend this talk, I am posting part of the handout I offered that describes paths to internal connections which can improve this self-other balance. The 4 Areas of Work that are the core content of Disentangle are named and illustrated below. These areas of work offer numerous insights and strategies for Self-Recovery:



4 Areas of Work to Foster Internal Connections

With a Take-Away Suggestion for Each Area


Facing Illusions – Reading: pp. 75-76

    Be Realistic with Self

        – Reading: pp. 78, 80

Detaching – Reading: pp. 134-135

    Increase Calm Responsiveness

        – Reading: pp. 136-137

Setting Health Boundaries – Reading: pp. 154; 155-156

    Find your “I” statement

        – Reading: pp. 167-168

Developing Spirituality – Reading: pp. 195-196

    Be aware of what You Can and Cannot Control

        – Reading: pp. 217-218; 219

 



We had a wonderful and meaningful time at Codependence Camp the weekend of April 1 - 3, 2022 at Vine Cottage on the grounds of the Inn at Forest Oaks in Natural Bridge, VA. This was our 29th Camp, and the learnings, comfort, and flow of Camp offered healing and growth.

Our focus was on "Self-Attunement" - developing our abilities to tune into self, to cultivate self as a reliable, safe haven. Our time in workshops was spent understanding this important aspect of recovery and then working in various ways to develop our internal resources to support Self-Attunement.

We plan to continue this internal resource development at our Fall Camp scheduled at Vine Cottage from Friday, September 23, 2022 - Sunday, September 25, 2022. Consider joining us. 

You can come enjoy the screened porch:


Workshop in the living room:


Delight in delicious meals:



Stroll the grounds:



Learn from Nancy's Flip Chart:



Work on your Self-Recovery:



You are invited.